Ask for what you need…

A lot of people never ask for what they need because they think it makes them appear needy. Codependent even. Or just selfish. But the reality is you have to ask for what you want. As the saying goes, you don’t ask, you don’t get.

This is also where a healthy sense of self comes into play. Because if you know what you need, you probably aren’t afraid to ask for it. And if you ask and it can’t or won’t be delivered, you’re confident enough to walk away.

It’s like going to a store and asking if they have X. If they say no, you probably walk away and look for a store that does have X. You don’t feel bad or needy or weird for asking if they have it or not. You need it (or want it). Period.

Don’t be afraid to ask for what you need. Then be strong enough to walk away if it isn’t offered.

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The artist…

I think we were all put here to create. I think that is what brings fulfillment and joy. The “trick” is finding what brings you this fulfillment. And finding the thing you want to create.

Of course, literal art is great. But I specialize in stick figures. Some can create music. Some can work with wood or glass or metal.

But I also think cooking is creating. I think writing is creating. I think being a “content creator” is creating. Sewing or quilting is creating.

Find something to create. The world needs it…

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Marching on…

Happy March 1, 2023! I hope you said “rabbit rabbit” as your first words for good kick through out the month.

This is already the third month of the year. Which is a reminder of time doing what time does…it keeps marching forward.

This is also a reminder that all the planets are still direct until the middle of April. It’s not too late to start a new thing. Make a fresh start. Begin at the beginning. It’s never too late…but with all the planets direct, there’s this cosmic push from the universe.

March has some significant astrological transits. Namely Saturn and Pluto changing signs. More on that when those dates come up. But March might feel a little chaotic. Keep centered, slow your breath and flow through it…

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Complaining…

If you’ve ever been around someone who does this alllllll the time, you know how exhausting and taxing it can be. If you’re around it long enough, you’ll start to feel drained yourself. Spiritually. And it’s not healthy or good.

The “cure” for this is simple gratitude. Refocusing your energy and attention on the things you are happy about and grateful for. But when people are so caught up in complaining, it’s like they can’t even notice. And sometimes you have to be the one to distance yourself from them.

Offer up an easy solution (the fixed usually are pretty simple, the complainer just doesn’t want to do anything themselves…they want everyone around them to change) and just move along.

They will drain your energy and your joy. Look out for yourself.

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If it feels off…

…it is. Pay attention. Pisces energy can put rose colored glasses on all of us. Relationships, offers, opportunities, whatever it is…if it feels off, it is.

Don’t let illusion and delusion trick you into thinking what you’re picking up on isn’t real. It’s your intuition speaking to you. Pay attention and act accordingly. It doesn’t have to make sense. It probably won’t. Just trust yourself and trust your own “hits.”

And if you can stop the need to understand why it feels off. It really doesn’t matter. That need to understand will just distract you. Maybe you’ll figure it out later. Maybe not. Just trust your intuition.

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Food as medicine…

There’s some sort of saying that if you don’t treat good like medicine, you will end up having medicine be your food.

There’s some truth in that. Eating lots of salads and fish won’t necessarily mean you’ll never get cancer or dementia…but….it might. Or it certainly won’t hurt.

You can start viewing food as medicine and food as fuel. Or just….tasty crap that makes your brain hum with happiness. Those chemicals really do affect the “feel good” chemicals in your brain. But so does caffeine, sugar, nicotine, illegal drugs….on and on. And you can trigger those same chemicals in your brain in other ways bedsides chemical s**t storm food.

Start with one day a week. Or one meal a day. Make it super healthy. Just start there. Everyone can do that. You’ll be surprised at how just that will make you feel better. And you’ll start doing it more days of the week…and more meals a day.

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Go after it!

I have a hard time understanding people who claim to really want something who aren’t doing anything about it. I mean, nothing about it. They just wish it and daydream about it and that’s it.

You have to take inspired action towards the things you want for yourself. Relationships (if you don’t ask, you don’t get), job opportunities, tangible things you want, on and on.

You have to do something.

The planets are all direct now until the middle of April. And Venus just moved into Aries. That’s all about passion and going after things with passion.

It might not work out. The person may say no. It might not be the time right now. But you have to do something.

It’s time.

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An unhealthy need for attention….

It can literally be a diagnosable mental health aid order- histrionic personality disorder. But that’s pretty rare and very extreme.

Aside of that, it can just be unhealthy and uncomfortable to be around. You’ll know it when you’re around it. Someone who actively seeks to shock people and to get attention. Any kind of attention. It can make you question who they are, what they’re about and then question yourself.

You deserve to be with someone who knows who they are and is comfortable with it. Like the expression, confidence is quiet, insecurity is loud. When you come across someone behaving this way, it’s loud. Almost deafening.

If you aren’t comfortable with it, if something feels off, if you’re beginning to question yourself…it might be time to walk away.

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Rose colored glasses…

This is the season for it … for ignoring red flags and sirens. For wanting to believe in the potential of someone and not in their present reality. For fantasy and dreams and all things delusional.

Pisces season can be a lot of that. Add to it Venus in Aries and it’s passionate approach to love…be careful out there.

It’s not that we can have dreams. We can and we should. But when we’re unable to see a person for what they are, that’s when trouble begins. Can oriole change? Yes. But you deserve someone who is what you want now. Not maybe in the future.

Keep your eyes and ears open.

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