Incorporating Introspection, one moment at a time…

The next time you’re at the grocery store waiting in line, take a moment to look around you. You may be taking note of who has the most in their cart, who has the moody child, the magazines near the register.  But the other thing you will probably notice is how many people aren’t present in the moment.  I know, “the moment at the grocery store?” Yes…the moment at the grocery store.  They’re probably on their phones.

You can take note of this almost anywhere these days. Airports, parents “watching” their kids at the park (but they’re really on their phones), at doctor’s offices, while waiting for the light to turn green in the car.

So few people take advantage of these moments of pause the universe gives us all the time throughout the day.  Instead of silence, they’d rather fill it with social media scrolling or posting or checking their email. I’m not saying there’s no value in social media or email. But what I am saying is that most people seem unable to just “be” in the moment.  “Be” in silence. “Be” in stillness.

They need or prefer the distraction of their phone. Of social media. Of ANYTHING rather than just standing still or sitting still and being still.  If you can’t be still by yourself, with yourself, then my opinion is that you’ve lost yourself.  Or, are in the process of losing yourself.  And just like tangible things can be lost and found, you can find yourself again. You just have to take advantage of these moments of introspection the universe gives us. A few moments at a time.

Start by NOT picking up your phone at the grocery store.  Yes, the entire time while waiting.  You can move on to NOT picking it up every time you are waiting at a stop light in your car.   Next, in the waiting room at the vet or the dentist.  You’ll be amazed at how many opportunities you have to NOT be dependent on a phone. How many opportunities there are to take a few deep breaths.  To maybe smile at the person in line next to you. Dare I suggest, start a conversation.

Believe it or not, it’s in these random quiet moments, without added distraction, that you can find an immeasurable amount of peace.  And if there’s one thing we can all use more than social media and selfies and hundreds of emails from stores we haven’t been to in years…it’s peace.

And peace has to start from within. If you aren’t at peace with yourself, you’ll never be at peace with anybody else. If you can’t find peace on your own without outside distraction, you will never find it with material things.  Don’t confuse true happiness with mere comfort. And don’t confuse inner peace with outside distraction. It has to come from within.

Be open to what calls you…

OracleIndigo

The Suit of Cups…

In the traditional tarot, the suit of cups is associated with relationships. Feelings, emotions. Love and friendship. It’s also the suit that corresponds to the water astrological signs – Pisces, Cancer, Scorpio.

When these cards present in a spread upright, they’re generally positive.  Reversed, they can indicate blockages to relationships or certain dynamic within relationships.  The court cards, in particular, are quite revealing in terms of personality type.  Water sign people upright are emotionally stable and mature. Giving and sensitive.  If they present reversed, they tend towards emotional manipulation and overall emotional immaturity.

My overall favorite suit in the deck (I have a lot of water in my chart, so I guess it makes sense),these cards have a gentle energy about them. Suggestive, perhaps, of the same energy we should have in all our relationships with others.

Be open to what calls you…

OracleIndigo

 

Tarot Card Reading of the Week – August 12, 2018

When I read for people, I read on any cards that fall out during shuffling. I believe those cards are messages spirit wants us to know in some way.  While I was shuffling for this reading, a card jumped out. So, being true to how I read for others, I’m going to read on it.

The Queen of Pentacles upright.  This can be an earth sign (Capricorn, Taurus, Virgo) woman over 35. It doesn’t have to be.  Pentacles are all about money and resources, finances and job.  This is homemaker woman.  She’s very money savvy, very good at keeping the home in working and running order. She finds the time to bake the cookies, put dinner on the table, go to her spin class, do all the laundry, set up the meals for the week…you get the idea. If you don’t have kids or a household to run, this is just a sense of having it together. Your home and/or career/money life in order.

The card of the recent past is the Three of Cups upright.  A party or a celebration.  Going out with friends. Maybe toasting to a new engagement or baby or graduation or housewarming.  But the idea is going out with others, celebrating a happy occasion and enjoying yourself.

The card of the present is the Six of Pentacles upright.  Give and take.  Specifically with money or your time or energy.  Or anything else you value as much as money.  But that sense of balance.  When to give (and who to give to) and when to take (and who to take from).

The future card is the Five of Pentacles upright.  A sense of poverty and being left out in the cold.  Again, with regard to money or finances or your job/career. Or with anything. This card has the energy of lack. Not having enough. And being unable to find help for yourself.  Interesting thing about this card is that it shows a church with stained glass windows illuminated. Help is right there.  Yes, in the spiritual sense, but also as a place to go for shelter. To get out from the cold.   To find light and warmth. But the people in the card can’t see it. Or…are making the decision to not go inside.  So be mindful of what help is available around you. Because it’s likely right there for you – maybe because of pride or ego (or a host of other reasons) you are choosing to not get help and find refuge and comfort.   So the poverty and isolation is on you at that point.

This week could be focused on money or your job. The pentacles cards seem to suggest that.  Some weeks the focus is on relationships, or health, or our spiritual evolution…or money. So flow with this.  A focus in this area of your life is there for a reason. Try to learn the lesson.

Be open to what calls you…

OracleIndigo

The Element of Water…

A symbol of emotions and sensitivity, the element of water is about relationships and feelings. This element is associated with water sign astrological signs – Pisces, Scorpio, Cancer.  It’s also associated with the suit of cups in the traditional tarot.

If you have a lot of water in your natal chart, you may be an empath. Or more empathetic than most people.  These individuals can be more sensitive all around – which I’m sure they would agree is a blessing and a curse. These signs are also often associated with psychic and intuitive ability. And healing.  Of course, that doesn’t mean that if you are a fire sign (as an example), you can’t have intuitive gifts.  One of my best psychic friends is an Aries.  It just lends itself to being more “open” and being a natural healer.

I find it interesting that a lot of people who have water (or a lot of water) in their natal chart are naturally drawn to water. They may engage in water sports (swimming, for example), or like to vacation in places by the water.  Even things as seemingly mundane as enjoying baths can also be a hallmark that some of these people share.   Water is all about our feelings and our emotions.  Think of all the examples in life where water is used to “wash clean” or “wash anew.”  Baptism, for example, or washing of the feet that a lot of Catholics and Christians may practice around Easter.   Even taking a shower.  Washing away impurity…making clean. Making new.

A very easy daily ritual you can partake in is to envision the shower water literally washing away all the negativity, all the emotional dirt and grime you may have collected or been around (I think negativity and toxicity can stick to us if we’re around a lot of people or situations that are like this) that day.  Or, if it’s first thing in the morning, cleansing your aura so that you can begin the day anew in the spiritual sense.

Epsom/sea salt baths are also a great way to cleans yourself of negativity.   Salt by itself is wonderful for protection and “pulling out or away” negativity.  This is also why being in the ocean can be healthy and spiritually cleansing and awakening.  The sea water draws out toxins and the water alone can calm and cleanse.  You can stand on the shore and every time a wave comes up to your feet or legs, as it pulls away, imagine it pulling away your problems or worries. Or if you have a specific problem or worry, imagine the ocean taking it away.

If you find yourself drawn to water, it may be for more spiritual reasons.  Maybe you need or want more emotion or sensitivity in your life.  Or within a certain relationship.  If you fear water or just don’t really like it, is it that you also fear being overcome by emotion? Do you also tend to shy away from deep, committed relationships for fear of becoming too emotionally attached?  Water can sustain life and can give nourishment and cleanse. But it can also drown and essentially destroy.

Water is far and away my most favorite element.  I have a lot of Scorpio in my chart, so I guess it makes sense.  In the coming days or weeks, spend some time with the idea of the element of water and what it means for you.  What about it appeals to you and what turns you away.  And why.

Be open to what calls you…

OracleIndigo

The Suit of Swords…

The traditional tarot is divided up into four suits: swords, cups, fire and earth. Each suit corresponds to a particular astrological grouping, and a specific type of energy.

The suit of Swords corresponds to air signs in western astrology – Gemini, Libra and Aquarius. And just like air individuals, this suit is about the mind. It’s about intellect and thoughts and communication.

The court cards are often read to be actual people. Although, sometimes, they can also represent the energies that these people may possess or exhibit. Read upright, these people are generally expressive and good communicators. They don’t mince words. They say what they mean and mean exactly what they say. They’re also intelligent.

Reversed, these individuals can use words to cut. To be mean, to harm. They may also speak before thinking. And can be prone to malicious gossip.

Just like we all have aspects of many astrological signs (you can see this in your birth chart), we also all exhibit aspects of all the suits. In this case, communicating effectively and intelligently.

Be open to what calls you….

OracleIndigo

Tarot Card Reading of the Week – August 5, 2018

The card of the recent past energy (that which we are leaving) is the Nine of Wands upright.  This is a card of suspicion and not trusting. It’s also a battle tested and battle weary card.  You may have recently gone through something that truly tested you. So you’re tired, but also defensive.

The card of the present energy (what is around you as you are reading this or that you will soon enter) is the Six of Wands reversed. A fall from grace.  If you once had the respect and admiration of those around you, something may have happened (or may soon happen) that will cause that admiration to fade. This is also a card of victory and winning (when upright). So reversed, it can indicate a block or delay to achieving that victory and the admiration of others.  Just because it’s blocked now, doesn’t mean it will stay blocked forever.  Energy is always shifting…

The future card is the Nine of Swords reversed. This card can indicate trauma or something that really has you worried. Up at night worried or “in your head” worried.  The reversed meaning is similar to the upright meaning – in that it’s all about significant distress and mental anguish. But when it’s reversed, as it is here, it can indicate a desire to change that.  When it’s upright you may be so caught up in it that you don’t see a way out or don’t realize there is a light at the end of the tunnel.  When the card is reversed…you do. You realize you don’t have to remain in this dark place forever and that you don’t want to. And that you’re going to take steps to get out.

I drew another card because, let’s be honest, these cards weren’t the best and brightest to get. And that card is the Eight of Wands upright.  A much better card, this can indicate communication and action. Positive action. Something moving in a positive direction.  It’s also sometimes called the “arrows of love” card. So it’s possible that the communication or thing that is moving in a good direction is related to a relationship in some way.  So now we know that all this suspicion and fall from grace and worry isn’t for nothing.  It may be what is needed to spur on the action and forward movement of something.

Be open to what calls you…

OracleIndigo

The Elements – Air

Another way to think of elements is in terms of energy.  There are typically four elements (or energies) we think of in terms of spiritual practice.  There is a fifth – that of “spirit.”  But four primary ones: air, water, earth and fire.

Air corresponds to the “air” signs in western astrology – Libra, Gemini and Aquarius.  The suit of swords in the traditional tarot also corresponds to the element (and the signs) of air.  It is about intellect and the mind.  Communication and words. Thinking and thoughts.

If you resonate with this element, you may find yourself drawn to wind.  Sensitive to subtle changes in wind direction or in breeze. Or you may just like the way the wind picks up before a storm. Incense is a typical representation of this element to have on your altar if you like to have all of them present.

Some say if you find yourself drawn to a particular element, it can represent an area or a dynamic you resonate with.  Or, a particular area you need to focus on. You may find that at certain times in your life, your attention or focus is drawn to one element over another.  Or that you always seem to resonate with one or two throughout your lifetime.

I’m a Libra sun (I also have Pluto in Libra, and Mercury in Libra).  So part of me has always been drawn to air. And wind. And the mind.  I also have a lot of water in my chart (Scorpio rising, North Node in Scorpio, Uranus in Scorpio, Mars in Cancer, Lilith in Pisces) – so I’m also drawn to water.

An easy way to work with the elements is to follow the signs the moon is in or the sign the sun is in. If it’s in an air sign, work with that element throughout the month (or moon cycle).  Meditate on it and see what it reveals. You may be surprised…

Be open to what calls you…

OracleIndigo

A Stone Blessing…

Sometimes, we are gifted stones or crystals. Sometimes we buy them. The reason for buying them can be for all sorts of reasons. Sometimes, you just feel drawn to a certain crystal.  And that’s reason enough to buy one.

But if somebody gives you one for a particular reason or if you buy one for a certain reason, a simple and easy way to “bless” or “activate” or “program” the stone is to simply say: I charge and empower you to….

Bring me happiness and good luck. Bring me love.  Help heal my grief. Bring me financial gain and prosperity.  Ease my worry and anxiety.  Protect my pet. Guard my home and property. Bring clients/patients to my business.

Whatever it is.  This can also be done with jewelry.  I have a citrine pendant and earrings I wear and I’ve charged and empowered to bring me happiness and good luck.

Some say that crystals already know what to do.  That rose quartz already knows to bring love and encourage self love.  That turquoise knows to bring protection and healing.  That black tourmaline already knows to bring protection and shield from negativity.  I think empowering your stones and crystals  yourself creates a bond with them. A connection between you and the stone that is special and unique to you. Like a friendship or any kind of relationship with a person (or a pet). And those bonds and connections serve to guide and help us.  So too can our bond and connection with crystals.

Be open to what calls you…

OracleIndigo

Tarot Card Reading of the Week – July 29, 2018

The card in the recent past position is The Star reversed. This is the “wish fulfillment” card of the major arcana. So it could be a wish didn’t come true. Or hasn’t.  It can suggest a block to feeling happiness and feeling like a star.  That feeling of shining bright.

The card in the present energy is the Ace of Pentacles reversed.  Aces start a suit and the suit of pentacles is about money and finances. Also about career and job.  So there may be a delay or block to a new start with this in some way. Maybe a raise is delayed or a promotion. Or a financial gift doesn’t come. Or doesn’t come as quickly as you had hoped.  Just because it’s delayed or blocked right now doesn’t mean it will always be that way.  The timing may not be right and that’s why it isn’t happening.

The future card is the Seven of Pentacles upright.  Wondering if all the work and effort and energy is worth it.  What harvest has all your work yielded for you? Or how do you see it growing and developing?   So it’s a card of pondering the future.  The direction of your money or your job.

A little bit of stuck energy this week, perhaps. But we have a lot of planets retrograde (five), including Mercury which can cause all sorts of hiccups and delays.  There are times to act and do. And there are times to think and reflect. This may be a week of reflection instead of action.

Be open to what calls you…

OracleIndigo

Tarot Card Reading of the Week – July 22, 2018

The card in the past energy (or the energy we are leaving as we begin the week) is the Page of Pentacles reversed. Pages can  be children under the age of 10-12 or people who act like children.  Pages are also messengers.  This can be an earth sign child (Virgo, Capricorn, Taurus) or a message regarding money or finances or job or career.  It’s likely either not a good message. Or it’s about something not moving forward as you’d like.  It could also just be an irresponsible person around you somehow – perhaps at the workplace. Somebody not very grounded and stable, especially with money or their responsibilities.

The present energy is the Ace of Wands reversed. Aces start a suit and the suit of wands is about action and passion. Creative ventures.  Wands also correspond to fire sign energy – Aries, Leo and Sagittarius.  Which is interesting, because we just entered Leo season.  But this card can indicate a block or delay to the start of something new – something creative or something that you are passionate about. It doesn’t mean it can’t ever happen or won’t ever happen. Just that right now, for whatever reason, the path to start this new thing is blocked.  We have a lot of planets still retrograde right now – and Mercury is set to go retrograde this coming week as well. So astrologically speaking, it really isn’t  an ideal time to start or begin new things if you can help it.

The card in the position of the future is The Chariot upright. A major arcana card.  This is a card of moving forward and charging ahead.  Being in control of the direction of things.  As a major arcana card, it can speak to a significant area of your life or a specific endeavor that is important to you.  So what was a little stagnant or unmoving at the start of the week…seems to be taking off towards the end.  Or it could be that you just regain your footing and now know the direction you want to go in. Sometimes that’s half the battle. Once you figure out which way to go, then actually going that way is easy.

Be open to what calls you…

OracleIndigo