They’re telling you…listen…

I think it was Maya Angelou who said when people show/tell you who they are, pay attention.

I had lunch with a friend the other day. She went into a new work situation hopeful and optimistic. It didn’t take long before she realized the person she was working for was taking advantage of her. He came out and told her, pretty directly, how little he respected her.

But she ignored it. She excused it and justified it. Because she wanted the work situation to be good and to work out.

But just like a romantic relationship…when someone tells you and/or shows you who they are…listen. And pay attention.

And then act accordingly. Your intuition does you no good if you see the flags and hear the sirens and put up with it. It’s not for you to turn your head or put in ear plugs.

It’s for you to leave. Remember: what’s meant for you will always find you. You can’t mess it up. So don’t be afraid to leave a situation that seems or feels off.

If it’s meant for you…it will come around again.

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Quick Daily Astrology…

The moon shifts signs every 2 days or so. The moon represents our feelings. And our mother. Saturn represents father.

Right now the moon is in Pisces. The last sign of the zodiac, Pisces is emotional, creative, and prone to illusion and delusion. It’s ruler is Neptune.

For artists, if you feel called to create, create. Thus is amazing energy for that. For the rest of us, let’s keep our thoughts and focus grounded. Daydreaming is fine…just don’t get stuck in a fantasy.

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The way we’ve always done it…

Maybe you’ve heard that phrase before. By your family, your manager/supervisor at work, even friends. If you have ever asked to change the course of something or if you have ever dared to go off script…this may have been thrown back at you.

It’s really a lazy approach to life. To doing things or to thinking of things. To living life. Tradition is one thing…but expecting others to just fall in line because the idea of doing anything else is unthinkable is…lazy.

When employers say this it’s essentially saying that they’re too intellectually lazy to think of doing things differently. Better. It’s just easier to do it the way we’ve always done it.

And when your parents say this…it’s likely coming from a place of jealousy. That you had the courage to think for yourself, to want something different, to go after it…that can be intimidating.

I say to you…be intimidating. Your life is yours to live. If you are called to do something different or “off script,” follow your heart and your own inner guidance. Be devastatingly authentic.

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Time passing does not equal apology…

Time can heal a lot, it’s true. But if you are thinking that letting a lot of time pass somehow erases bad behavior or errors in judgment, you’re wrong.

The adult approach to this is to admit what you did. And to admit it was wrong. Or, not the smartest decision. Accountability is important.

With Mercury retrograde, an ex or two may come back. And a lot of them might think that if some time has passed, it’s all good. Hold them accountable. If they hurt you or wronged you…hold them accountable. Then decide how you want to proceed.

This is also an important step in establishing boundaries. Letting people know what you are willing to tolerate and not tolerate.

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Be grateful you didn’t give up…

You. Yes, you. Be grateful to YOU that you didn’t give up. You know…when they thought you were a little crazy or batting out of your league. When they laughed in your face or told you no.

Be grateful to yourself for moving forward. I’m not saying it didn’t hurt and you didn’t cry. I’m sure you did. But you got up the next day and kept at it. And for that you should be proud and grateful.

If nobody else tells you, I’m proud of you. Keep going. There’s magic up ahead…

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If thoughts become things…

…then think about the things you want.

Simple enough. Right?

So when you’re anxious about something or worried about how something will turn out…stop thinking about it. Focus on something that makes you happy. Focus on something that is going really well for you.

Because what you focus on, grows. Where you put your attention, grows. So be mindful on what you want to grow in your life.

It sounds a little too easy, doesn’t it? It’s because it is. Or, it’s really simple…but not easy. But once you start doing it, it gets easier. Spend this weekend trying it. Focus on what you want, not on what you don’t have. See what happens…

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Protect your energy…

Things right now are feeling a little like 2020. The rising covid numbers, racial unrest, shortages at the grocery store. Only now, we can throw in the war in Ukraine, abortion rights and inflation.

You need to protect your energy. I would never advise to stay ignorant of what’s going on in the world around you…but you need to protect your energy.

That could mean limiting the amount of time you spend watching or reading the news. Or limiting how many sources you get it from. Or limiting who you discuss things with.

But with the energy out there is intense, it’s a matter of time before the energy within will follow suit. Then we’re not thinking clearly. We’re not dialed into our intuition. We lose empathy and compassion and we lose our patience. It’s not good for anybody.

So set some limits. Set boundaries. Protect your energy…

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Release the need for their approval…

One of the best things you can do for yourself is to stop needing people’s approval for your decisions and actions. Your parents, friends, coworkers. You have to release that need if you really want to progress in your life.

This isn’t easy the first few times you do it. If you’ve been raised to listen to your parents and not make waves, it’s going to be VERY out of your comfort zone.

Do it anyway. It gets easier the more times you do it. And after a while, people will stop giving their commentary. Because they know you don’t need their approval.

You don’t have to be rude about it, either. You can just listen and then say, I appreciate your input, thank you. Or, it’s unfortunate that you feel that way.

And maybe you really do appreciate their input. Maybe that’s exactly what you needed to hear – their doubt and their “concern” and their disapproval. Now you know for sure that this is what you want to do.

Now go do it. Head held high, stare it dead in the eyes…and go after it. Make yourself proud…

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The change in behavior…that’s key…

So if an ex has come back into your life with this Mercury retrograde…well, maybe you already know it’s a no way in hell. But if you’re on the fence…here’s what you need to look for: changed behavior.

The actual behavior. The actions. Not the words. Not the promises. Not even I’ll try harder. No. It’s actions.

If they are serious about reconnecting and being a couple…they will find a way to make it happen.

And the other thing to pay attention to is time. For how long. Because changed behavior for a few weeks or even a few months isn’t it. Keep in mind that it’s usually a stressful event that will make someone lapse into bad behavior. That’s when they turn back to what is easy. But that’s when it counts. Not when everything is going well and everyone’s happy. It’s when things are stressful and tense.

What is meant for you will find you. There will be no need to chase it. It will chase guy. You will attract it. You can’t mess it up.

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The calm after the storm…

…it’s coming. The full moon is exact around 12:14 am or so. And after that…the energy should be easing up. So if the weekend was tense or emotional, you should start to feel a little more balanced.

I hope whatever fell away or left your life, you allowed to leave. And I hope you wished it peace.

Now it’s time to focus forward. You’re about to enter a comeback phase after the setback. The gain after the loss. It may not all happen in one day, but things should start to feel more positive. YOU should start to feel more positive.

Be open to the new road ahead of you…

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