Author: Oracle

One of the things that always strikes me the most after a breakup is the silence. The exceedingly loud and inescapable silence. It’s seemingly all around. Most people will do anything and everything to fill it. With anything. With other people, with substances so they don’t have to think about it, with reckless activity. Sometimes they fill it with constrictive things. New hobbies, getting in touch with friends or family, exercise.

But when then…it’s still an attempt at avoidance. Anything to drown out that deafening silence.

I want to encourage you to sit with it. And to listen to it. To listen to the silence. Accept that it will be uncomfortable. Accept that you may hate it. At least at first. Accept that it might make you cry. But sit with it.

The silence has answers for you. Answers you need to hear. Don’t try to drown it out…try to tune into it and hear what it’s saying to you.

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So now that you’ve figured out what you want for yourself and in your life…you have to believe that you can have it. And be it.

Unless and until you start believing it is yours…you’re delaying your ability to have it. You’re literally blocking it from coming in. It’s like asking the universe for something and then refusing to accept the gift.

You have to start believing it. Really believing it’s possible for you. That signals to the universe that you’re ready to receive what you’ve asked for.

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Don’t say happiness or love. Because that’s a cop out. What do you really want in your life? For yourself? I didn’t ask if it was possible or feasible or affordable. I asked what you want.

If you can’t answer this…I guarantee that you won’t find happiness or love. If you don’t know exactly what you want you won’t go in the right direction towards it. You can’t. Because you don’t know what you want.

Sit with this. And as some warning – be leery of people who don’t know what they want. They will likely try to just coast along in your dreams or goals or lead you on while they figure out what they’re after.

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Have you ever noticed that gossip is never positive? It’s never about how successful someone is. Or what amazing gift they received. It’s usually centered around someone else’s failure or struggle. And it’s usually about jealousy.

In order to fail or struggle at something, you have to try. Attempt it. And a lot of people are too afraid to even try. Because they fear what other people will say about them. Ironic, isn’t it?

While you can’t control other people, you can control your reaction to it. When someone gossips to you, don’t respond. Don’t reply if it’s text. If it’s conversation, smile and change the topic of conversation.

If they’re gossiping to you, they’re also gossiping about you. Don’t be a part of it.

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An easy way to break up stagnation is to switch up the order you do things in. You’d be surprised how this can help stir creativity and ideas.

Walk the dog the same route, just in the opposite direction. Change the order of how you get ready in the morning, or at night. Change the way you run errands. Go to a different gas station or grocery store.

We get stuck repeating patterns in our lives. Then complain that things aren’t changing or shifting. Sometimes we need to do the shifting. Try it…

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Your real mission in this life is to be who you have been called to be.

Some people know what or who this is from a really early age. Some people spend their whole lives trying to figure it out. Some people pass from this life never knowing what or who they were meant to be.

Even if you don’t know right now…don’t stop trying to figure it out. Follow your passions and your bliss. Learn more about things that catch your interest or excite you. Talk with people who interest you.

You’ll know once you find it. There will be a moment of this…this is who I am called to be. This is what I am meant to do. And once that is figured out, spend the rest of your life being the best you that you can possibly be.

The world needs your gifts and your talent.

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You don’t need them to believe in you. You don’t need their approval. Or validation. Or their blessing.

You need to believe in yourself.

And to take inspired action.

Sometimes this means having to “politely ignore” friends and family. It may mean having to socially distance yourself from people who are quick to offer criticism and pessimism.

It’s okay. As long as you believe in what you are doing and your goals…keep moving forward.

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It’s about fulfillment. The job, the relationship, the goal weight…whatever it is. Striving for perfection is a sure-Fire way to get disappointed and frustrated. It’s fulfillment you are after.

Accepting that no job or person is going to be perfect will set you in the right path. Start asking yourself, does this make me happy? Am I fulfilled? Am I being challenged to grow and be a better version of myself?

Don’t ask if it checks off every single box. It won’t. You’re seeking fulfillment. If you are happier with it than without it. That’s the goal.

And don’t get spooked off by challenge. I’m constantly shocked by people who back off at anything or anyone who poses a bit of a challenge. Welcome it. That resistance is going to make you stronger and better. And coincidentally…more fulfilled.

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The month of July begins the second half of the calendar year. We’ve already gone through half of 2022. There are six months left to achieve goals you may have set for yourself at the beginning of 2022.

It’s also a good time to alter or change what needs to be changed. Or to come up with new (or more) goals for yourself.

This doesn’t have to be an epic thing. But it certainly can be. The “trick” is to set goals that are new and outside of your comfort zone, but not so unattainable that you’ll get discouraged.

Time is marching on. And it’s important for us to keep up with it. Keep growing, learning, doing.

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The end of a month is an ideal time for a review. I may have mentioned that I set some goals for myself this year. I would read a book a month. And every month I would do something I’ve never done before. Or go somewhere I’ve never been before. It’s my aggressive approach to learning something new every month (you always learn something by reading) and to getting out of my comfort zone.

Did you learn anything this month? Did you do a new thing? Visit a new place? And by learn anything new, it can be something about yourself. A new talent you didn’t realize you had. Or realizing a fault or deficiency you want to work on.

Tomorrow is a new month. A new opportunity to learn, to grow, to evolve. It’s not always fun. But I can guarantee that it will be rewarding. Try to come up with a new thing to learn. Or something to work on. You won’t ever regret grown.

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