Communication is necessary. It just is. If you aren’t getting what you want or need, you need to communicate that. Expecting people to read your mind or intuitively know what you need is ridiculous. You have to ask for it. State it. In some cases, demand it.
Stop worrying about not being liked or being talked about. Stop being more concerned with making others comfortable at the expense of your own comfort. You deserve to have what want (provided it’s legal and consensual and nobody is hurt). But you have to communicate it.
If this is something that terrifies you, start talking to yourself in the mirror. Practice communicating if you will. Sound silly? Actors and people who have to give speeches do it all the time. Once you get used to hearing the words come from your mouth, in your own words…it might surprise you how powerful the words are. And how powerful you feel. Hold on to that.
You have to communicate.
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