A couple of years ago I was close friends with someone I worked with. She was fun and funny and high energy. But she was also constantly comparing herself to everyone. Including me. Everything became a competition. It was exhausting, unattractive and something I wasn’t interested in.
At the core of that competition with others is a lack of self-love. She didn’t love (or maybe even like) who she was. So she was always setting herself up against others.
She didn’t set a goal for herself to out do herself. It was never her versus her. She set out to outdo other people.
Goals are good. Necessary, in fact. Just make sure you aren’t constantly competing with everyone else around you. Learn to set goals for yourself against yourself. And learn to be happy with who and what you are.
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