Controlling people never works…

If you think you can control someone…you’re setting yourself up for some tough life lessons. You can’t. But more than that, you shouldn’t want to.

People often try to do this when they feel out of control. And when they lack the ability to deal with things unexpected. So if they can control their environment and the people in it, then they can stay comfortable. They won’t have to change or grow or evolve.

The one constant thing in life is change. Thinking you can control your environment and other people is a waste of your time and energy. It’s also a sign (in my opinion) of emotional immaturity. Rise above that. Learn to flow with change. Learn to grow from it. And if you insist on controlling anything….work on controlling yourself. Your own choices and decisions.

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